We’ve had a post locked, loaded and ready to be published for the past week, which for me is nothing short of New Year’s Miracle.
Please be impressed. But because we’d never want to speak anything into you that feels inauthentic, would you allow us to hold off on that post, in order to give you a very genuine piece of our heart.
A piece of our heart, that we had to offer up earlier this week.
15 ½ yrs ago Gunther “Bear” Rea came into our lives at the ripe old age of 9 weeks. He was an energetic little lover without an ounce of ill will in his cocker spaniel frame. He was tender, cuddly, and pretty whiny those first few months giving us then 21 year olds a run for our money. Gunther had an insatiable appetite for life, love and food. Being a cocker spaniel, it was in his blood to be a hunting dog. And hunt he did in the “wild suburbia” of our then Rochester home. He hunted through purses, coat pockets, leather jackets, Express jeans, area rugs, wedding albums and at one point even devoured the first 7 chapters of the book of Genesis. Chris had unknowingly left a gum wrapper in his bible. We joked that Gunther was hungry for more of the word. God knew he had better make puppies irresistibly cute, otherwise, they would never last in your house for more than 7 hours.
Through the years, Gunther taught us more than I think we can even comprehend. He reminded us of unconditional love. He exposed our selfishness. And even in the midst of retrieving pizza slices from garbage cans, running halfway across the yard with a steak that dropped from the grill, and devouring a ½ pack of birth control pills in his third month of life, he remained a massive source of joy for us.
Having a dog will change you in ways that only dog owners can understand. Over the past 15 years Gunther has been that solid, stress relieving dog that is always excited to see you when you walk through the door. Seeing his silhouette at our front door as we rounded the corner to our street was our constant “welcome home.” He was always there to cuddle with you after a rough day, and like most animals, was a non-stop source of entertainment. So many times, we’d see him doing something hilarious (i.e. sitting on the couch like a human or vertically sticking his treats in the carpet like he was staking his claim of the land) and yell out, “Honey… come in here, you have to see what Gunther is doing!”
Bottom line, our lives are better, richer, because we are able to share them with this beautiful-loving creature that God created just for us. He added so much joy and value to our lives!
Maybe you are reading this and can relate to the pain of losing a furry little one. Maybe you have experienced another type of loss that feels so painful right now. We get it friend. Let us leave you with this thought:
The only reason it hurts so bad is because you have experienced a love so deep.
Recently, I heard a speaker say that once you’ve dug an emotional well in pain, take heart, because you now have an equally deep reservoir within you that can be filled with joy. That’s our prayer for you friend, to the same degree that you’ve known pain, we pray that you can now be a well filled to overflowing with the love of God and every fruit of the Spirit that is now ours because of Christ.
We are allowing ourselves to grieve and be sad right now and we’d be outright lying if we said our hearts haven’t broken in about 15 directions this week. But for us, that’s a sign that you’ve loved well. And when you’re well acquainted with grief, you also know that life will move forward and so much hope for a bright future is right around the corner.
Thank you to all of our incredible family and friends who have rallied around us with prayer, encouraging words, sweet cards and gifts. The love of your people is truly a soothing and sustaining balm to a hurting heart.
Thanks for letting us honor the memory of our best buddy with all of you today.
Chris & Megan Rea
PS. If you’re struggling with pain of any kind, we have an entire blog series designed to help you move forward. Check it out here, here & here
Gunther was one-of-a-kind. His Nonna already misses him:(
He absolutely adored you! 🙂 Thanks so much for your sweet words mama xo
We love our pets. Our Cockers, Alex and Gunther lived a long and happy life. 15 years for both of them. Part of the family. We have happy memories of them. Love you!
15 years for Alex too?! Wow, I love that they both had long happy lives! Thank you so much for your sweet words Lana! Love you xo
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much losing a pet hurts. My prayers (and all of the Merry Monday hosts thoughts) are with you and your family.
That is so kind of you, thank you SO much Marie!
So sorry to hear of Gunther’s passing. It is so hard to lose a friend who has been a part of your lives for such a long time. Praying that your fun memories will comfort you both and even bring a smile to your faces.
Thank you Sue! That means so much, truly xo
so sorry for your loss. The loss of a pet is very difficult. They become part of the family and mean so much.
Thank you so much Barrie, we appreciate your sweet comment.
So sorry about Gunther. He sounds like a great dog and you have many happy memories. Dogs just make our lives so much greater! We have 5, and I can’t imagine what it would be like without even one. I hope those happy memories will bring you lots of smiles.
Pamela, we really appreciate that! 5 dogs! My goodness, your home sounds like a blast! 🙂
So sorry for your loss. Pets become family. Keep on keepin’ on.
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Thank you so much <3
I am so sorry that Gunther had to leave you. I haven’t had a dog, but I have a cat, Tigrou, and I agree that a pet teaches us lots of things! May our God comfort your hearts.
Tigrou! What a precious name, love it. Thank you so much for your sweet words Anneli!
I’m so sorry. Losing a pet is heartbreaking. After all, they ARE family. Big hugs to you! #FridayFrivolity
Thank you so much, we truly appreciate it!
I am so sorry for your loss. I am a dog owner and lover and agree with what you have said. They truly do make life wonderful. Such beautiful, unconditional love.
We couldn’t agree more, thank you for your kind words Kati!
We lost our sweet 15 1/2 year old pup Riley on December 17th. He took a part of our hearts with him, and I still can’t believe he’s gone.
Grieving right along with you.
I think companion animals are another gift from God and some of His most amazing creations.
Oh Jeanne, I am so sorry. We feel you friend. It’s such a process isn’t it? Praying for you today.
So sorry for your loss! We lost our dog over a year ago, he was a family member. Pets are a huge blessing to our lives!
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So sorry for your loss too Julie, they really are such a special part of our lives!
I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a beloved pet is as hard as losing a beloved family member or friend. They give such love and even if they have a rough start in life they forgive and forget and are so grateful for the love and care we give them. Gunther had a wonderful life and your heart will open up once again to care for a pet in need.
It is so wonderful and heartwarming when another person understands <3 thank you so much for your sweet words Debra!
What a beautiful and heartwarming sentiment to your beloved Gunther. Thank you so much for sharing your inspiring words to help all of us who grieve.
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Thank you so much Michelle!
I am sorry for you loss. I know this same pain all too well. There is nothing in my life that brings me more joy than my beloved Dogs. I too used to have a red headed Cocker Spaniel and they are amazing, as I think all dogs are. Special thanks for the eloquence that you used to describe a loss most of us have a hard time putting into words.
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You had a cocker too? <3 Thank you so much for your sweet words Jeannee, they mean so much!